How to understand yourself and your desires? Every woman faces these questions. The magazine “Liza” picked up a test that will help you understand yourself!
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Sometimes we complain that life does not take into account our wishes. But our demands on it are sometimes very contradictory and inconsistent. So in order to send the right requests to the universe and voice the right desires to goldfish, you need to understand what exactly you want from life! Do you know this? Test yourself!
Mark how the statement suits you and write down the points received.
Questions
1. Sometimes I can blurt out something in my heart, and then I regret it for a long time and wonder: what came over me? (yes – 1, no – 5, rarely – 3)
2. When I have a vivid dream, I remember it. And I can roughly imagine what it means. (yes – 5, no – 1, rarely – 3)
3. Sometimes in a cafe I look at the menu for 15 minutes, not knowing what is better to choose – steak or fish. (yes – 1, no – 5, rarely – 3)
4. When people ask me before my birthday: “What can I give you?”, I don’t think for a long time: there is always something that I want more. And why should I get what I don’t need? (yes – 5, no – 1, when as – 3)
5. It’s better to go shopping with a friend: from the outside, you can see what’s going on and what’s not. (yes – 1, no – 5, depending on circumstances – 3)
6. Yes, I know that I have enough shortcomings. But I try to neutralize them. (yes – 5, no – 1, if I remember – 3)
7. Sometimes I get angry at a person, not knowing what exactly he is unpleasant to me. (yes – 1, no – 5, rarely – 3)
8. I know my biorhythms, and I work during the period of the greatest uplift of forces. And in the “bad time” – I rest or switch to a less important matter. (yes – 5, no – 1, when as – 3)
9. I get sick quite often. But it’s not my fault. Such is my body! (yes – 1, no – 5, periods – 3)
results
From 9 to 20: in everyday life, you are usually guided by Masyanya’s principle “well, somehow.” That is how it will turn out. You are rarely satisfied with the results of your actions. But this is not because you do not know how to act, but because you do not have a very clear idea of \u200b\u200bwhat these very results should have looked like. Listen to yourself! Most of the answers to our questions are within ourselves.
From 21 to 33: when you collect your thoughts, with the spirit – and in general, you are going, everything starts to work out for you. But one stripe is replaced by another – and you miss, mope and, in general, are “out of shape”. Try to remember well and fix your thoughts and feelings of the “bright stripe”! And resurrect them with an effort of will, if you start to fall into the opposite.
From 34 to 45: you know yourself, your beloved … like the back of your hand! Friends say that you have a wonderful intuition that never fails you – and whispers to you how to act in the best way. But you know that intuition is not a “manna from heaven” that accidentally fell, but the art of tuning into the same wavelength with oneself.
Psychologist’s comment: we want something to change around us, but we ourselves are not always in a hurry to change. Readiness to make a single breakthrough does not mean a complete decision. For the sake of the desired goal, you need to do something daily. There is such a parable: the student constantly interrogated the wise man, what is needed to become wise. And suddenly, instead of answering, he thrust it headlong into the water. “What did you want when you were underwater?” “Air, of course!” “And you were ready to do anything just to take a sip, right? So, in order to achieve wisdom, you need to want it with the same force!” In other words, if the Most Important Purpose is determined, then the small impulses that pull in other directions must be subordinated to it. It’s hard to move north and south at once!